
When you look at my Children, youāre looking at children who are protected, respected (yes, children deserve to be respected), healthy, safe, privileged, black, beautiful and handsome!
It doesnāt matter what I came fromā¦what matters it what comes from me. Iām working to heal so they donāt have to! Iām proud of me Baby! From āBroken to Wholeā is what I claim!

Somebody should have shouted off that alone cuz these children aināt broken, bruised, scared, scarred, abused, misused, mistreated or defeated. They were born free because I didnāt pass onto them what was passed onto me.
They get to talk back. I didnāt say for long tho. Iām still a black Mama. š·š·
Sharing my my latest tweet while also taking this time to thank those who support me and hold space for me as I continue to work to move forward after loss.

Todayā¦I did feel strong. Now all I need is a good night sleep with sweet dreams. š· Love you. ~ OEV

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