Time for YOU (Single Woman of faith) to Give Sex Its Flowers

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Hey Love!

Yes, it’s time for YOU to give Sex Its Flowers today.

I know that may sound like "umm..what the hell"? But let me ask...

Do you ever feel like there's a part of yourself you're supposed to hide away, even from your own thoughts? It's that whisper in the back of your mind, the one that says, "You shouldn't feel this way. You shouldn't want this."

I know that whisper well. It's the voice of shame, of guilt, of repression. And if you're a woman of faith like me, you've probably heard it too. Maybe you've felt it even more acutely because of the expectations placed upon you by your religious community.

The struggle can be real. We face the burden of religious sexual repression, where our natural desires are stifled beneath layers of judgment and condemnation. We're told to pray away our desires, to pretend they don't exist, to lock them away in a box labeled "sin."

But here's the thing: embracing your sexuality as a woman of faith is not only okay....it's essential. It's about unlocking freedom from shame and guilt, and stepping into a deeper sense of self-acceptance, confidence, and empowerment in every aspect of your life.

Why is this so important? Because embracing your sexuality is about more than just giving in to your desires....it's about honoring your God-given nature as a sexual being. It's about recognizing that your sexuality is not something to be ashamed of or hidden away, but something to be cherished and celebrated as a beautiful part of who you are.

Giving sex its flowers isn't just about reclaiming your desires....it's about reclaiming your agency over your own body and experiences. It's about saying, "This is me, and I'm not going to apologize for it." It's about finding harmony between your natural inclinations and your spiritual beliefs, and stepping into a sense of wholeness and authenticity that comes from owning every part of yourself.

So how do we do this? How do we embrace our sexuality as women of faith without compromising our beliefs? It starts with acknowledging the normalcy of our desires. We're not sinful or immoral for wanting what we want....we're human. And as humans, we're designed to experience pleasure and desire in all its forms.

We also need to reject the shame culture that surrounds female sexuality within religious communities. We need to stop letting others dictate what is and isn't acceptable for us to feel and desire, and start embracing our sexuality as the divine gift that it is.

But most importantly, we need to strengthen our relationships....with ourselves, with others, and with God. By embracing our sexuality, we can enter into relationships with authenticity and confidence, knowing that we are worthy of love and respect just as we are.

So, are you ready to take the next step in embracing your sexuality while honoring your faith? If so, I invite you to purchase my book, "9 Things Women Should Ask a Man Before Giving Him Sex."In it, I provide valuable insights on how to navigate your sexual journey with wisdom and empowerment, so you can embark on a journey of self-discovery and empowerment with confidence and grace.

Click here to buy now and start giving sex its flowers today.

Much Love

HEY, SHE's…

Your Favorite Sexologist, Octavia E Vance, aka OEV, and she helps high achieving women Embrace, Own and Protect their Sexuality in order to create the 'Ships n Sex Life of their dreams, without compromising their faith.

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