
One of the most amazing things in this life is having a Mate who got you. No matter if it’s the people, the judgement or even “the Rona” that tries to come for me, this Man is with me through it all.
Over the years, people have come for me about being too loud, too vocal, too forward and now too sexy. But you know what those people really have a problem with? The fact that I get to be all the things they hate or dislike about me and still have the approval of God and My Man.
So many ladies are living such a frustrated and repressed life that instead of reaching out to someone like me who can help them live a liberated life, they come at me attempting to take me back to the same repressed life they’re tired of living. Why? Because me embracing my liberation causes discomfort in them remaining in their frustration and repression.
Ladies, you don’t have to continue living a frustrated and repressed life. You can be liberated as well. But you first have to stop operating in repression trying to control others with your standards and have introspection as to why you’d rather police someone else’s life rather than go live the liberated life you deserve.
Don’t hate on my life and my freedom in God, instead put that energy into loving yourself enough to get to the life in freedom you really want. And yes...it’s ok to “WANT” this ladies. Remember, He does give us the desires of our hearts. Delight yourself in Him instead of trying to lower someone else’s delight in Him.
~ OEV

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Your Favorite Sexologist, Octavia E Vance, aka OEV, and she helps high achieving women Embrace, Own and Protect their Sexuality in order to create the 'Ships n Sex Life of their dreams, without compromising their faith.
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