
I can’t do nothing with these hips but embrace what my Mama gave me📷📷📷
Beauty is fleeting. Don’t be old and grey wishing you had embraced your Sexuality, your Beauty, your Youth and mainly your SELF! Do it NOW!
Ladies, we spend so much time talking about all the things wrong with our bodies we forget to talk about what’s right and love on the the things we may like the least. Because I can tell you, the older you get the more things change.
Don’t let anyone dismiss your feelings about your body when you feel a way about wanting to work on it and embrace it. Even while you’re working to get in shape, stop and take a pic where you are right now and love on you. Share it no matter what anyone thinks. Do it scared! You’re talking to a woman who for years wouldn’t even share full body pics because I didn’t embrace my body because I allowed religion to tell me that wasn’t important and that my curves "caused men to sin".
But I don’t know one woman who’s never had self body image issues. Not one. So yes, it is important to us. Especially in a world that photoshops away imperfections and push European pseudo“beauty standards”.
Even after 5 children I embrace me inside and out, with all the stretch marks, cellulite, scars from 5 c-sections and more.
And please know, I never set out to lose 20lbs. I set out to get under 200lbs and the scale you see is my current weight and counting. I jus lost 20 plus pounds along the way to my goal.

And please know, I never set out to lose 20lbs. I set out to get under 200lbs and the scale you see is my current weight and counting. I jus lost 20 plus pounds along the way to my goal.
So embrace them hips. Them cellulite thighs. Those stretch marks on those stomachs. That flab you working on under your arm. Embrace it because it tells a story about where you been and it will show where you going. What you see is a woman it took too long to embrace all this goodness #deadass. But I ain’t wasting no mo time now. It’s the love of self for me boo.
Embrace you even if no one else does.
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~ OEV

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Your Favorite Sexologist, Octavia E Vance, aka OEV, and she helps high achieving women Embrace, Own and Protect their Sexuality in order to create the 'Ships n Sex Life of their dreams, without compromising their faith.
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