Tired of feeling trapped by expectations that don’t align with who you truly are? Do you yearn for more love, more leisure, more pleasure in your life—but feel like faith, family, or culture is holding you back?
It’s time to Be A.W.O.L. (A WOMAN OF LEISURE)
As women of faith, we’ve been told that sacrifice is our badge of honor. That love means enduring without limits. That pleasure is something we should feel guilty about. But what if none of that was true?
What if you could go Absent With Out Leave from those beliefs and Be A Woman Of Leisure in order to lead a life full of love, leisure, and pleasure without compromising your faith instead?
AWOL Your Life: Choose a life of Love, Leisure and Pleasure while creating the connection and fulfillment you desire, all while honoring your core values, beliefs and boundaries.
Introducing: Be A.W.O.L. Community
A private, members-only group where you’ll join a community of women of faith who are ready to step outside the lines, have candid conversations, and receive guidance on how to:
- Explore the true meaning of Love beyond traditional expectations
- Embrace Leisure and the freedom to do what brings you joy
- Find Pleasure in every aspect of Your Life without feeling guilty
- Redefine your SexLife and learn how faith and pleasure can go hand-in-hand
- AWOL Your Life—live without the permission of others and create a life that’s 100% yours
Together, we’ll tackle the topics that are rarely discussed in the church or around your friends. From intimacy, dating, marriage decisions, and sexuality, to pleasure, boundaries, and faith—we’ll dive into it all.
You won’t just get advice. You’ll get strategies, tools, and action steps designed to empower you to take control of your life, love, and pleasure.
What does it really mean to BE AWOL?
BE AWOL means stepping away from the need to conform. It means going Absent WithOut Leave from a life that no longer serve you, reclaiming your identity and Being A Woman Of Leisure instead, leading a life of Love, Leisure and Pleasure—on your terms. You can have it all—faith and freedom, love and leisure, devotion and desire. And I’ll show you how.
Choose Your AWOL Path below
You can join BE AWOL with three different tiers to fit where you are in your journey:
1. AWOL LITE
- Access to our private, members-only community
- Monthly group coaching call with Q&A
- Weekly ‘AWOL Tips’ for integrating love, leisure, and pleasure into your everyday life
- Exclusive video content and resources
BEST VALUE
2. AWOL DEEP DIVE
- Everything in AWOL Lite plus:
- Bi-weekly intimate Zoom sessions with me for deeper guidance
- Access to exclusive courses on love, sex, and pleasure as a woman of faith
- Special guest workshops on topics that matter to YOU
3. AWOL VIP
- Everything in AWOL Deep Dive plus:
- Personalized one-on-one monthly coaching session with me
- Private Voxer access for real-time guidance and support
- VIP-only events and in-depth coaching materials
Why Join?
Women of faith have been struggling for years with questions like:
- How do I balance my faith with my desire for pleasure and freedom while single?
- How do I get more out of my marriage without having to DO more?
- Why do I feel guilty for wanting more out of life, love, and my relationships?
- Why don’t we talk about sex, pleasure, and intimacy in church—where can I get real answers?
In BE AWOL, we discuss these challenges openly, offering real solutions and strategies so you can live the life you’re meant to live—with me, your trusted guide, right beside you. You’ll be part of a community of women just like you who are stepping into their power, reclaiming their joy, and redefining what it means to live as a woman of faith on your on terms.
It’s time to live unapologetically.
Ready to BE AWOL?
Click the link below to join the community where love, leisure, and pleasure all align with your faith. No more guilt. No more shame. Just the freedom to live fully.
Hi, I'm Octavia E Vance aka O.E.V.
Your Favorite Sexologist and Navigator of Love, Leisure, and Pleasure
For over 10 years, I’ve helped women; married, single, separated, or divorced, reclaim their power, find their voice, and create the 'Ships n SexLife they truly desire. Now, I’m taking it even further.
Through the Be AWOL Community, I guide women of faith like you to AWOL your life...leaving behind the guilt, doubts, and pressures and step into a life designed for you, by you, and Be A WOMAN OF LEISURE.
This is your space to reconnect with yourself, honor your core values, beliefs, and boundaries, and create the connection and fulfillment you desire. It’s time to be unapologetically YOU.
Join us and embrace love, leisure, and pleasure on your own terms and Be A WOMAN OF LEISURE.
BE AWOL: Choose a life of Love, Leisure, and Pleasure while creating the connection and fulfillment you desire, all while honoring your Core Values, Beliefs, and Boundaries.
The Word on Octavia E Vance
"I've never heard anyone as passionate as OEV when it comes to Sex, Relationships..." "She takes her time to answer every question and breaks down each teaching with the bible as her foundation. She's truly a gem for this generation and then some."
- THERESA T
"If you're looking for a mentor who's been there and done that..." and will break down the bible so that all can understand when it comes to relationships and sex, then there's none better to lead you into liberation than her."
- SHIRLENA H
"She changed my life by helping me to create the 'marriage of my dreams... "when I started believing I would never get married based upon my past. OEV helped me to embrace my sexuality and create a life from freedom instead of guilt and shame that I had experienced in the church."
- NICOLE H
"OEV HAS A HEART TO LIBERATE WOMEN". ...and provide them with tools to reign from the inside out. She shares her life experiences to pass on sound wisdom. Her teaching, coaching and mentoring ladies to free themselves from erroneous thinking concerning love, sex, relationships and gender issues..."
- Marshae' B.
